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Coping Strategies, Family Therapy, Relationships & Communication, Substance Use, Therapy & Support

How Do I Make It Stop? Dealing With Addiction and Upsetting Behaviors in Your Family

I like to call our thoughts, feelings, and actions that scream, "no more!" our make it stop reactions. Recognizing those reactions, assessing them, (making sense of them), and then deciding to do things differently can create less pain and suffering in our family system. When we are willing and make changes in ourselves, it invites… Continue reading How Do I Make It Stop? Dealing With Addiction and Upsetting Behaviors in Your Family

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Adults, Coping Strategies, Mental Health & Wellness

Coping with the Stress of a Government Shutdown

Here we are again experiencing another government shutdown. Shutdowns affect the entire country, but disproportionately impact us here in the DMV, including in Montgomery County, due to the high volume of government employees who live in this area. Before becoming a therapist, I used to be one of them, and I have felt firsthand the… Continue reading Coping with the Stress of a Government Shutdown

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Coping Strategies, Mental Health & Wellness, Therapy & Support

When Life Shifts: Coping with Change and Uncertainty

Most adults donโ€™t love change . . . and thatโ€™s totally normal. We tend to find comfort in routines, structure, and predictability because they help us feel safe and grounded. So when change comes, even if itโ€™s something we chose, a new job, a new baby, or even a divorce, it can still feel disruptive.… Continue reading When Life Shifts: Coping with Change and Uncertainty