An evidence-based approach for kids and teens who experience intense emotions and struggle to cope effectively.
“The Big Feelings & Reactions Kid”
Encanto: Pepa
Big emotions that are hard to hide and can impact others
The Breakfast Club: Bender
Externalizes stress, acts out, pushes limits
Full House: Gia
Rebellious, emotionally intense, pushes boundaries
What This Might Look Like
Your child or teen may feel things deeply and react quickly, especially in stressful situations. They might:
- Have big emotional swings
- Act impulsively in the moment
- Struggle to calm down once upset
- Feel overwhelmed by their emotions
At times, their reactions can push others away – even when they want connection.
How Therapy Can Help
Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT) teaches practical skills to help teens better understand and manage their emotions. It focuses on:
- Emotion regulation
- Distress tolerance
- Mindfulness
- Healthier ways of coping and communicating
Teens with intense emotions are often caught between shame about their reactions and a desire to feel understood. Even if they resist help, many are quietly struggling.
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